Wednesday, July 29, 2015

The Grief That Follows Cancer

Do you read QuietLikeHorses? If not, you should. It is so beautifully written and raw. My dear friend, Sobrina, writes about the beauty and inspiration life throws our way, as well as the heartbreaking sadness that life thrusts into our lives.

Sobrina lost her husband, Alan, just over two months ago. They are both dear friends of mine and I have been processing his death alongside her. In absolutely no way am I living through it in the same way (honestly, I cannot imagine what the tremendous grief she is experiencing must feel like), but I am doing my best to love and support her, while allowing her to really experience her sadness. As much as I want to take her pain away and "fix" this for her, I cannot.

I've been trying to read as much as I can about the grieving process in hopes of being a better support to my friend. I came across an article written for the New York Times by David Brooks. In it, he describes lessons that can be learned by one family's trauma. The part that really stuck out to me was when he talked about the difference between people who are fire fighters and builders in a time of tragedy. "Firefighters drop everything and arrive at the moment of crisis. Builders are there for years and years, walking alongside as the victims live out in the world... Be a builder."

I've been wrestling with this idea for the last few weeks. I think I make a great fire fighter for the people around me. I know how to be sensitive to needs in crisis situations, I am not afraid to step up when people can't find it in themselves to make decisions, and I'm not afraid to be a buffer for awkward conversations or relaying messages. Doing this allows me a tangible way to support someone I love. But am I builder? Do I have it in me? I sure hope so.

It's not a new thing for me to live life next to people; we've modeled our church community in that way for the last several years. However, I've never had to see a friend through this kind of tragedy. It's not that I'm finding myself tempted to run away from this kind of commitment, I'm afraid I won't be good at it. How do you know what to say? Is there ever a "right" thing to say? "No. Because nothing you say can bring Alan back. You just need to be present and love Sobrina in that presence."

Those are the words a dear friend, and mentor, provided when I expressed my doubts. She's right. There's nothing I can do to take away her pain, speed up her process, or bring Alan back. That's scary. It's scary to think about helping my friend in a way that is so unfamiliar and undefined. Do I know what I'm doing? No. All I can do is love my friend and not be afraid of what Alan's memory brings.

Man, I sure do miss my friend though.


(Photo of Alan by QuietLikeHorses)
Tuesday, January 1, 2013

New Year, No Resolutions


I don't like making New Year's resolutions. I never really have and I doubt that I ever will. I feel like when you make resolutions at the start of the year you feel so guilty and stressed if you haven't completed them by the end of the year. That pressure is what makes me dislike New Year's in general. I hate feeling like I need to "ring in the new year right!" or "finish the old year strong!" What if I just want to stay in my comfy clothes, watch a movie, and go to bed early? Does that mean that the following year is going to stink? Nope.

I don't want to seem like a complete scrooge. We do hang with friends, and we always have a good time. For example, last night we hung with a bunch of people for a fondue/ game night. I took on that Beer Cheddar cheese fondue and had no regrets. :) I just don't want to feel like the significance of an entire year rests on the shoulders of one night. If Rob and I don't have the perfect kiss, then that doesn't mean our marriage will be rocky, it just means that we missed the mark at that moment. If I don't have a killer party, it doesn't mean that the year is going to suck. It just means that it wasn't my best night.

I don't know, maybe I am just scroogy. How do you feel about New Year's and New Year's Eve?

(Photo taken at our friend's fondue/ game night last night)
Friday, December 14, 2012

A Fancy, Sing-Songy Weekend


This weekend I will be attending a fancy holiday party and I'm very excited to wear a super cute, black lace dress I got a couple of months ago. I've been waiting for the chance to wear and this is it! Then on Sunday, we are going to a convalescent home to sing Christmas carols through the halls. We did this last year and it was a blast. Not only do you get sing songs of the season, but seeing smiles on their sweet faces is absolutely priceless. My other hopes for the weekend: watch a Christmas movie and try a new recipe.

What are you doing this weekend? If you're in my area and are interested in caroling on Sunday, let me know! We'd love to have you join us. :)
Thursday, December 13, 2012

Roller Derby Names

My friend Jenny has an innate ability to come up with kick ass roller derby names. A couple of weeks ago I asked her to come up with a few for me and this is what she sent over...

Stacy Creech Ernst:
- Stace Invader
- Creech the Creep
- Ernst and Young Financial Investments
- Beyon-slay (because of your love for Beyonce, obviously)


I think they are absolutely hysterical and number 1 and 4 are my favorites. Soon, the trend caught on and she has since created names for more of our friends...

Emily Atsatt:
- Emily Kickinson
- Em-Fatale
- Emilay-Her-Out
- The Eminator
- Eminent Threat
- Em-Bot 


Shannon Renfro: 
- Shan-Bam-Thank-You-Ma'am
- Renfro Your Life
- Shenanigans (or Shenaniguns)
- Shank-You Ma'am
- Shanihilator
- Shan-Wow
- Shantastic


Alison LeClair:
- Alotta Trouble
- Alison Wonderslam
- LeClair Flare
- Ali-gator Smack-ya-later
- Al-Be-Back
- Ali-bama-Slamma
- The Aliminator
- Ali-vya Bleeding


I absolutely love seeing them come up in my Facebook feed, so I asked if she would send over her archive. It's a real beauty I tell you...

Leah Lemau:
- Leahnardo DiPunchy
- Leahthal Injection
- Lemouth Puncher
- Leah Left-hook Lemau


Brittany Brown:
- Encyclopedia Britt-slammica
- Britt-knee Fears
- Britta Filter Water Purification System
- Brie-elzebub


Julie Deaver:
- Unruly Julie
- Kick-in-The Jules
- Ju-leave Me in Stitches
- Deaver the Cleaver


Carla Mills:
- AK-Shorty-7
- Cartel Milenio
- Carla Bruise-knee (like Carla Bruni)


Mary Hart: 
- Mother Mary Mayhem
- Hart Attack
- Mary J. Bludgeon 


Do you have the ability to come up with clever nicknames? If you could create a roller derby name for yourself, what would it be? 
Friday, December 7, 2012

Have a Jolly Weekend!


What are you up to this weekend? We’re headed to Christmas in the Park in downtown San Jose with friends. We’re not only going to be enjoying the holiday spirit, we’ll be celebrating our friend, Jesse’s, birthday (Happy Birthday Jesse!). Rob really likes Christmas in the Park, and while I think it’s fun, I don’t think I love it as much as him. If I’m honest with myself, I think I’m most looking forward to ordering a jumbo hot chocolate (it’s the sweet things in life) and hanging out with friends (we really do have awesome friends).

Do you have any holiday related activities this weekend? Have you started your shopping, or are you one of those impressive individuals that is already done? I haven’t even started yet, ha!

(Photo found here)
Monday, November 19, 2012

Happy Go Lovely


My friend Misty recently started a blog called Happy Go Lovely. She's dedicated the space to share her life, her thoughts, and her family (bonus: she has the cutest little daughter who rocks an awesome Halloween costume). Last week she posted a super personal post about her sleeping habits since her daughter was born. Here is an excerpt:

Last night we were lying in bed trying to fall asleep and for the first time in over a year I could feel Danny's heartbeat. There is something special about feeling or hearing another person's heartbeat. It is so personal. It made me slow down for a second and appreciate him being there, and realize how much I had missed him while he had been snoring on the couch the last year. It also reminded me of the first time I had felt Claire's tiny heart beating after she was born.

Not only do I love the title of her post, "My Heart Beats for Them", I love how vulnerable she is and how honest her feelings are. Since I'm not a mother, I am not familiar with the challenges of adjusting to a little one. I've heard that babies can put a strain on relationships, but in what kinds of ways? Arguing over how to teach? Feeling overwhelmed with the responsibility and lack of sleep? Or simply not being able to give your partner as much attention (or receive it for that matter)? 

I'm sure each couple faces individual adjustments and Rob and I will undoubtably face our own. That is why I appreciate and admire the kind of posts like Misty's. It is encouraging to see different couples working through parenthood in their own ways. How will Rob and I do it? I have no clue. We'll just have to cross that bridge when we get there. Until then, I'll take mental notes! 

Head over to Happy Go Lovely and check out the full post here! If you're feeling extra friendly, say hey! and welcome Mist to the wonderful world of blogging. :)
Friday, November 16, 2012

Weekend Report

Friends! The weekend is upon us and I am excited for what is in store. I'll be kicking it off with a beautiful baby shower celebrating a dear friend's bundle of joy. Oliver (the bundle) hasn't made his way into the world just yet, but I am SO excited to meet him. I can't wait to hold him, touch his soft skin, and kiss his baby cheeks!

Then on Saturday, I'll be celebrating an early Thanksgiving with some friends. I need to sign up for something, but I'm having the hardest time deciding...

What are you up to this weekend?
Monday, November 12, 2012

Florence, Italy - Europe Trip 2012

After bidding farewell to beautiful Venice, we began the trek inland to Florence, Italy. On our way I was hoping to watch some of the beautiful Tuscan countryside go by, but I totally fell asleep instead. Trains just have a way of rocking me straight to sleep, especially when I’m listening to music or audio tours.

When Rob and I were in Florence 3 years ago, neither of us had a strong connection to the city, and I can't remember why. The only thing I can think of is that maybe we were tired and still adjusting to the time change (plus, we remember our shower not having a door and making the rest of our room extremely humid). Being back, I was struck by how beautiful Florence is and just how much life is throughout the city.


Once we arrived, we headed out to do some exploring, combed through some of the markets (I forgot just how many there were) and visited the Duomo. Since there is no nearby body of water to offer a wonderful sea breeze, the weather was super hot, and we were all sweating like crazy. In an effort to stay cool, Sarah wore shorts and a tank top, but wouldn’t be allowed into the Duomo because of modesty. Luckily, the church was gracious enough to offer her a covering. :)

For dinner, Ian really wanted to find a restaurant recommended by a friend of his called 4 Leoni. Somehow we were able to find the address and headed across the river for dinner. The place was pretty packed and Ian was actually trying to make reservations for the next night when they had a table open up. We settled in and let Ian order for the table. It was seriously once of the best meals of the trip. First, the server explained the entire menu to us in English so that we would know what we were ordering. I ordered a tortellini stuffed with pears, served with a creamy cheese sauce. It was SO good and I would love to be able to have it again. Then each one of us ordered dessert and they brought out complementary champagne (I’m telling you, there is something about young Americans that make people want to give free alcohol).  


After dinner, we walked home with full bellies and the city lights. 


By the second day, we were kicking ourselves for not having another day in this incredible city. We hiked to the top of the Duomo Tower and took in 360 degree views of the city. After the tower, we decided to take the Rick Steves audio walking tour! All of us. I love having insight into the city as we are walking around. We would probably be walking in the same areas, but having additional information and history is so much cooler. We grabbed some lunch outside of the Palace Plaza and did a little shopping through the streets. I picked up a couple of leather bags; a small brown carrier and a medium, deep red over the shoulder. I absolutely love them and hope they last me a long time. Once lunch and shopping were done, we headed back home for a mid-afternoon siesta. 


After our siesta, Ian, Sarah, Rob, and I went to visit the statue of David at the Academia while the LeClairs headed out for a date night. David looks so enormous in his custom archway, it’s very captivating. What’s even crazier to think about is that Michaelango carved him out of marble completely free hand! There is some serious detail in that sculpture. The Rick Steves audio guide was pretty good, but the rest of the museum was pretty underwhelming. It’s actually pretty small and there is an odd room with mirror floors (I had a dress on, so I decided to stay out).  


Since we weren’t quite ready for dinner, the others headed back home while I explored our neighborhood solo. I don’t think I would be one to take a long, far-away trip on my own, but I did enjoy some time alone. I like being able to go where I wanted and wander were I felt, but I would definitely miss sharing that with someone else. 


Ian (our Florence food finder) found a couple of good places for dinner, so we headed over the river. Our first choice needed a reservation to be seated, but was all booked up for the evening. So we headed back to our side of the river to a place called, “Il Latini”. It was quite the dining experience! One of the things they are known for is seating people family style. For example, if there is a couple, they would seat them at a four-top with another couple, whether they knew them or not. We didn’t end up with any new friends because they placed us at our own four-top. 


As soon as we sat down, we could tell that there was some major hustle and bustle happening around us. A server came up to us and asked if we wanted to start with some appetizers, mumbled through an explanation, and then we said yes! The first course of prosciutto, melon, and meats was huge and delicious (it set the tone for the rest of the meal). We said yes to everything the server offered, let him take the lead, and the food just kept coming. We had a full four-course Italian meal (appetizer, first course, second course, and dessert) practically needed to be rolled out of the restaurant. Overall, the food was really good and the service was excellent. The entire meal was a bit pricey ($40 each), but it was well worth it for the experience! We were so excited to be able to take part in such a fun local tradition.


We ended up leaving for Rome pretty early the next morning. Florence, we did not get enough time with you!

Click below for more photos! 


Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Do You Collect?


Do you collect anything specific when you travel? Shot glasses? Pens? Magnets? I'm not a huge collector and don't have anything specific to get when we go on trips. Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy some shopping (especially for jewelry :), but there is never anything that I have to search out.

I've tried to be a collector or souvenir shopper in the past by picking up magnets wherever I went, and asked my roommates to do the same (Bon - remember that was going to be our "thing"? ha!), but it kind of fell flat. I admire those that can really commit to that kind of collection, like my brother. He has done an amazing job at collecting shot glasses over the last couple of years, and has even talked others into grabbing them for him as well. He has well over 100, probably closer to 200! I just don't know what I would want badly enough to have that many of.

What kinds of items do you collect (if any) when you travel? How long have you been collecting?
(Photos: one and two)
Tuesday, October 16, 2012

Pitch Perfect

Over the weekend my friend Sarah and I had a little bit of a date night. She came into the salon for a manicure and pedicure, then we grabbed a bite to eat at our favorite sushi place, and decided to see a movie. Since I knew Rob wasn't game to see Pitch Perfect (I had already asked), we found a time at a local theater and bought our tickets. *Sidenote, it was a small local theater and we only paid $6.75 for our tickets(!), on a Saturday night!



The only expectations I had for the movie was that: a) Rebel Wilson was probably going to be hilarious and b) it would be a total Glee rip-off. While the latter is mostly true, I really enjoyed the movie. It was a super cute, feel good, funny kind of movie. The producers did a good job of picking music that covered multiple genres and were easy to sing along with (quietly of course :). Oh, and Rebel Wilson was absolutely hilarious.

Have you seen Pitch Perfect? What were your thoughts?
Tuesday, September 18, 2012

The End of Summer is Near...


I am usually a dedicated winter person; I absolutely LOVE when it rains, hot chocolate is a staple for me, and cozying up next to a fire with my guy sounds like a dream. That's why this September has been so weird for me. I am not ready for summer to end and I feel like I have been mourning the loss of long, sun-filled days. I've even found myself feeling sad about warm weather outfits I didn't get much use out of this year! Say what?! I know, it's odd for me to miss summer before it's gone, especially because I'm usually trying to push it out faster than it would leave on it's own.


I think my attitude started shifting when I began working in an office. Back in the day (when I did nails), I had a glimpse of the outside world multiple times an hour. These days, I can go 2-3 hours before even taking a peak outside. Plus, it's kind of a bummer to start work in the dark and leave work in the dark. I don't know how people closer to the poles do it; Finland gets 23 hours of darkness a day in the middle of winter (yikes)!


I don't think that the office is to blame in this situation, I think it's just a part of life to work regular business hours. Saying that, I can acknowledge my appreciation for extended sunlight that working in a cube has given me. Being able to eat dinner outside well after work has finished, or taking extended strolls through the neighborhood are activities I enjoy and will miss as the sun sneaks away earlier and earlier. Fortunately for me, winter storms and hot chocolate wait for me on the other side...

Are you in an office most of the day? How do you deal with restricted outdoor access?
(Photos: #1 - Lunch at Little Chef, #2 - Zoey sunbathing in the backyard, #3 - Strolling & dinner with friends!)
Friday, August 31, 2012

Enjoy the Long Weekend


What will you be up to this weekend? Going out of town, having a staycation, stuck at work (hopefully that is not the case)? Rob and I will be headed out of town with some good friends for a weekend at Shaver Lake! Luckily, our friend's parents are extremely generous and are willing to open their home to an energetic group of twenty-somethings. The Shaver weekend has turned into something of a tradition and everyone looks forward to it every year. As we were discussing final details last night, we realized that we really have planning this weekend down. We know what to expect, how to prepare, and how smoothly it can run.


I'm always up for an adventure, but I also really enjoy a nice, relaxing weekend. Having a heads up on what to expect eases any stress and anxiety I may feel about a possible mishaps. With that in mind, here are my hopes for the weekend:
  • Sleep in
  • Read a book for pleasure
  • Play in the lake
  • Take a nap
  • Have a milkshake from the general store
What are your plans for this weekend? Hopefully it is a relaxing one!

(Photos from Quiet Like Horses)
Monday, August 27, 2012

Venice, Italy - Europe Trip 2012






Holy smokes, Venice does not disappoint! Once we arrived, we hopped on a water bus and headed for San Marco Square. Cruising through the canal, watching the sun glistening on the water, is such an amazing experience. You can feel the warmth of the sun on your skin, hear the water breaking against the boat, and see the city alive and well. Ian was freaking out from the beauty, Sarah was freaking out from the beauty, and I was freaking out from the beauty! It's not often that we get to ride along such beautiful scenery, so we were definitely excited.



Due to a booking situation (more on that later), we actually arrived in Venice a day early. Sarah's mom (and her reliable internet) was able to help us find a place right in the middle of San Marco Square (thanks, Mary!). It was smack dab in the center of everything and it was a great way for our friends to be introduced to this romantic city.


We dropped our bags in our rooms and headed out to explore. First things first: gelato. We made sure to start our adventuring with the delicious treat. :) Next up: real food. Ali and Elijah suggested a place near the Grand Canal and we all happily agreed. It was a fun place with nice servers and interesting decor (read: bras were hanging throughout the restaurant and bar. The owner told us they were "donated" from guests, ha! No donations here!). By the end of the meal, they brought us a round of complimentary shots (seriously, there's something about young travelers...) and we all made Elijah drink Ali's. After dinner we decided to wander through the city...


Wandering in Venice is a wonderfully beautiful experience. We stumbled upon gorgeous homes, canals, boats, and people. Yes, being lost can be frustrating (ok, very frustrating), but when you're open to wandering it is one of the best places to do it. As we strolled, we came across two really memorable moments: a Swedish accordion player and a Venetian music festival.


The accordion player was set-up near one of the bridges and was playing his stinkin' heart out. He was charismatic, passionate, and was able to endear himself to the crowd quickly. At one point, an older gentleman from a nearby restaurant approached him, put money in his cap, gave him a bottle of water he had purchased for him, and then placed his hand on the performers face and said, "Thank you. This is beautiful." It was such a sweet moment to witness. The older gentleman was moved by the music he was hearing and acted on it. It felt special being a part of it.


After we watched that performer play for a bit, we headed toward home (or what we thought the direction of home was), and pretty quickly came across a music festival. We arrived right as the last band was playing their encore set, but we joined the crowd and began dancing with everyone around us. The whole plaza was full of people, food, lights, and music. We found something unique and dove head first into a local night of fun. It was a major highlight for all of us, but the experience really resonated with Robbie.


We couldn't have asked for a better first night in Venice. Here is my journal entry from that night:

"Each 'first night' in a city has been fantastic! Malmo, Berlin, Prague, and Vienna; Venice is no different. We are finding and stumbling upon amazing scenes and experiences, and it is really setting a tone for the next few days."


The next morning we walked around for a short bit and grabbed breakfast sandwiches from a local place. The air was warm by 9am and we were all betting that we would have a warm day. As we sat along the street, we watched several "repeats" go by as they worked to find their way. Ian described the area as the "Bermuda Triangle"because people just couldn't find their way out! From here, we strolled through the main shopping streets and over the Rialto Bridge.


Once we crossed over the bridge, we ventured through Venice's other main island (with some gelato as a refreshment, of course). I had never actually visited this part of the island before, so it was fun for me to see the differences (there aren't many, if any). Our goal was to walk to the train station and make reservations for our next trip and then head back to meet the apartment owner for our next Airbnb digs. Unfortunately, things took longer than expected at the train station, so we agreed to take a water taxi back to San Marco Square (oh bummer :). It was a beautiful, quiet ride; water taxi's are actually a bit expensive, but worth it if you're willing or have more people to split the cost.



We grabbed our bags and headed out to meet with our host. There was a little bit of a miscommunication about the time (good thing we had a working phone, thanks Sarah!), but once we meet our host, things were great! Our apartment was in a quiet, residential part of Venice, away from the hustle and bustle of tourists. Each room was spacious and offered air conditioning (Venice apartment, for the win!). We decided to take a little afternoon break, rest up for the evening, and enjoy our place.


Robbie and I broke off from the group to celebrate our anniversary dinner that evening. We were technically in Berlin on our actual anniversary, but we decided to wait for an uber romantic city. In hindsight, I'm sure we would have found a great place in Berlin and LOVED it, but I'm not going to complain about waiting for Venice either. We found a great restaurant that was both a garden restaurant AND along the water. It had lush vines growing above the tables and we were seated only a few feet away from a small canal. I love my husband, I love being married to him, and it was a pretty perfect way to celebrate our life together.




The next morning, the whole crew decided to go to Murano island. Murano is an island not far from Venice that specializes in glass blowing. Once you land, there are hundreds of glass factories that allow visitors to watch a demonstration in hopes that you will buy some of their merchandise. The last time Robbie and I were in Venice, we visited an amazing factory that had a top notch demonstration and beautiful pieces of glass. We were a little bummed because we couldn't find the same one this time, but no one really seemed to mind. After some walking, we decided to grab some lunch at a restaurant along a canal. To be honest, I was a little disappointed. Ian ordered an amazing lobster dish, but it seemed to fizzle out from there. I don't want to sound like a brat (I mean, I was in Italy), but the food just wasn't that good; I guess you can't win them all.




After we got back to Venice, we took a rest and got ready for the evening. We all agreed to split the cost for a Gondola ride, which was fun. The Gondoliers are usually yelling back and forth to each other, which can kill some of the magic, but it's really cool to see the city from the water. After our ride, we grabbed dinner from a courtyard cafe and enjoyed each other's company. Overall, the night was pretty quiet, but I think we all enjoyed that.



The morning we left, we grabbed pastries from a local bakery, tried to squeeze in St. Mark's Cathedral (but had to leave right before we got in, bummer), and cruised the canal one last time. Since Venice relies so heavily on tourism, it can sometimes feel artificial or commercial. Plus, the fact that they hike prices up so high can be a turnoff for me. However, it's natural landscape is still amazingly beautiful and I feel lucky to have had the opportunity to see it.

Off to Florence we go!
(More photos after the jump)
Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Vienna, Austria - Europe Trip 2012


I don’t think anyone in our group had major expectations heading into Vienna. I think it was the city we had done the least amount of research on and only had a couple of days in. Even though we didn't give it much attention beforehand, Vienna definitely came out swinging on our first day! Somehow we missed our tram stop and had some difficulty finding our way. Have no fear! Between Robbie’s internal sense of navigation and Sarah’s mobile minutes we were able to get back on track. We found our apartment, settled our things and then headed to dinner right away (because we were starving).


Dinner was quite an experience as well! I found a Bosnian restaurant not far from us, and everyone was game to give it a try. When we got there we were the only patrons in the entire place. On top of that, the owner barely spoke German (Austria’s language) and zero English. It definitely felt awkward as we struggled through our order, but things started to turn around from there. He connected an online media player to his sound system, and gestured for Ali and I to choose an online music station for the restaurant. My go-to, Pandora, doesn’t work outside of the U.S. because of copyright laws, so I had to pull Robbie in to help. As we were trying to figure out the music, Ian somehow made his way to the bar and was asking the owner (Jay) about his beer selection (note: they were struggling to communicate through German because English was NOT the common language). We were able to get Mumford & Sons to play and this led Jay to play the air guitar while the volume was much too loud. After dinner, Jay brought the entire table a round of free shots! It was gross and burned my throat, but it was such a fun experience. His excitement was contagious and a great way to welcome us to this city.



As we set out to explore the next day, we decided we should stop at the tourist office first so that we could get some good information. We grabbed transportation maps, and a city map with a walking tour of the city center. First stop on the tour: St. Stephen's Cathedral. Throughout Europe I was struck by how beautiful everything was; each church is unique, yet just as grandiose as the last. To get some background info as we walked through the church, Sarah and I listened to a bit of a Rick Steves' audio guide. After plenty of of pictures were attempted (the lighting was just too dark), we decided to hike to the top of the church tower. Boy, it was exhausting! It was around 20 stories, straight up (yikes!). Once we had a chance to catch our breath, we were able to fully enjoy great views of the city from the highest point in the Hapsburg Empire.


It actually rained on us pretty consistently the entire day. I'm talking soppy shoes and wet clothes kind of rain, and I was loving it! In hopes of not becoming miserable, Robbie, Sarah, and I purchased ponchos, looked like major dorks, and stayed dry. Ian didn't want to be a part of that, so he stayed damp.


We strolled through Graben Street and found a cute Austrian place tucked down a small alleyway. It was nice and warm and full of locals. There was an older couple who grabbed a window seat and were going over their map once they finished their meal. Ian leaned over to me and said, "That's going to be you and Robbie in another 35-40 years." I really hope so.

We went back to the house for a little break, met back up with Al and Lijah, and decided to get dinner at the NachMarket. The Nach is an outdoor market that sells fish, produce, meats, cheeses, etc. We agreed on a Japanese place for dinner and ended up eating mediocre sushi. Not to be a snob, it just wasn't as good as home (lesson learned). Before we left our apartment, Ian had done some research on where we could get an after-dinner treat. He found a place called Hotel Sacher and their claim to fame is inventing the Sacher Torte. Sacher Torte is a specific kind of chocolate cake that was accidently invented in 1832. The hotel was super fancy, and we were totally out of place in our casual gear, but the dessert and drinks were delicious so we didn't care!


We decided that we weren't done for the night, so we finished up the walking tour. We found ruins, the Royal Palace, and the Twin Museums. It was neat to stumble upon these beautiful building as they were lit up, with hardly anyone else around.



The next morning we headed back to the Nachmarket to explore and grab breakfast. It was fun to see the vendors alive with people and full of color. We found a cute place and had an Austrian style breakfast. The skies were blue and the weather was pretty lovely. After much discussion, Robbie and I decided to take a day to ourselves. To be honest, it was really nice. We love experiencing new places with such good friends and seeing things through a different perspective, but it was nice to have some alone time to ourselves. Time for just the two of us, time to talk about our hopes and plan for our future.


We kicked the day off at the palace we found the night before. Robbie was willing to listen to a bit of the Rick Steves audio guide (yes!), so we heard some great historical insight we would not have known otherwise. From here we embarked on some classic Robbie/Stacy exploring: see something in the distance, walk there, go inside (if possible), and then find the next place. We found a beautiful church with tall steeples and an awesome outdoor concert area that plays "re-runs" of classical music concerts for free. We decided to grab lunch in a small little neighborhood called Spittleburg and enjoyed the quaint views. It was about this time that the rain started again, so we headed back to the apartment to grab warmer clothes and to rest a bit.


We weren't quite ready for dinner so we stopped at a street side cafe for some warm beverages. I was able to enjoy a hot chocolate, listening to the rain fall on the city, with my favorite guy (3 of my favorite things!); I'm pretty sure I had a smile on my face the entire time. We walked further along Graben, past St. Stephen's, toward the river, and stole WiFi from Starbucks (we didn't feel bad stealing their wifi since they are such a huge organization, sorry Bucks!). While freeloading, we picked a French place on the opposite side of town for dinner, but the underground got us there no problem.


The restaurant was a tiny little place, in a local neighborhood, on a street with no name. Their lights lit the whole place and created a warm, inviting ambiance in contrast to the wet cobblestone street. As soon as we walked in we could tell that it was family owned and simple in spirit; no two tables were set up the same and everything was made of wood. We both ordered dessert crepes because we were so full from our coffee breaks throughout the day. It was a perfect little place to end a wonderful day with my guy.


When we got back the roomies had made their way to the roof of the building and were looking over the Vienna skyline. We each took turns pointing out the places we found and compared adventure notes from our day. Can you see St. Stephen's off in the distance?


Vienna is a beautiful city. Their buildings are powerful, but not overwhelming; detailed, but not gaudy. There is a mix of old and new architecture throughout the city, but neither feels out of place. The city itself actually reminded me of San Francisco because it felt manageable in size and was much more modern than most of the other cities we had visited. We got the sense that some people are resistant to changing the appearance for fear of losing the historical integrity, but that there are also those that push against that. This quote from the tourist center seems to sum it up, "At one point, old Vienna was new."

Is Vienna on your "must-see" list? It wasn't on mine, but I definitely want to go back now that I've been there.

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